As a child, I had the good fortune to travel frequently. My parents weren’t
globetrotters – in fact, quite the opposite. It was a stroke of luck that I had
the ability to travel so early and so often, but I’m so very glad that I did. I
took my first plane ride when I was three; a family trip up to Minnesota
for my grandparent’s 50th anniversary. Accompanied flights with relatives to New
York followed soon after that. By the time I was eight or nine, I was
flying across the country all by my lonesome (with a responsible adult waiting
for me at the receiving airport, of course), and by 12 I had a Delta wings
collection that could rival the best of them. At 14, I had a once in a lifetime
opportunity to travel abroad as a student ambassador with the People to People
International program. We toured four countries in Europe and I had a host of
“firsts;” I took my first trips via train and ocean liner, I went farther from
home than I had ever gone before, and I experienced cultures, cuisine, and
jetlag unlike any I had ever known.
While anyone can see why parents might be
reluctant to send their children off to travel, and while the obvious
logistical and financial burdens of raising a well-traveled child are many, if
you have the opportunity to expose your children to all the wonders of the
world, I highly encourage you to take it. There is no greater gift you can give
your children than a well-rounded world view and an adaptability that they can
carry with them into adulthood. I am thankful every day that my parents and
sundry relatives gave me the chance to experience firsthand what it is like to
step into the unknown and out of my element.
I would not trade my travel-filled
upbringing for anything. For my parents, sending me off for summers with my
aunts and uncles in California,
Ohio, or New York was just a very convenient way to get me out of the house for
a couple of weeks at a time, but to me it was an unparalleled adventure.
I
firmly believe that having the opportunity to experience other places both near
and far, at such a young age taught me a perspective well beyond my years. I
learned to embrace change and to try new things, and by doing so I gained a
worldly confidence that a bookish girl like myself very badly needed at that
age. I learned empathy, seeing firsthand that people around the world had lives
just like my friends and family back home. I learned courage, having to
navigate intimidating airports full of businesslike adults at a young age. I
learned to be okay with uncertainty, never knowing quite where I might be
heading that summer. The gift that I am most thankful for, though, is that I
learned to love travel. It is a passion that is still very much a part of me
today, and it means that I will continue to learn new things for as long as I
am able to continue.
I would urge the parents among us to
encourage their children to travel often and far, to give them the opportunity
to take risks and to see the world while they have the luxury of youth. You
don’t have to take my word for it, it has been shown that children
who travel do better in school and in many
other aspects of life. To make a long story short, if your goal is to raise
successful, well-rounded, empathetic, and happy children, then your methods
should certainly include a decent dose of travel. It’s one of the most surefire
ways to ensure that your children turn into kind and adaptable adults. In the
immortal words of Mark Twain, “Travel is fatal to prejudice, bigotry, and
narrow-mindedness.”
Thank
you to travel writer Emma Sledge.
Home exchange is a perfect way for families to
travel; plenty of space for kids while saving thousands in accommodation costs.
Your bookish nature and travel experience has served you well, Emma. Great blog entry.
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